Understanding Men: Feel Inadequate As Your Husbands Woman? 3 Ways To Make The Feeling Go Away

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There are a lot of women who struggle with the concept of understanding men. Probably the most common problem that my friends approach me about is feeling inadequate. They literally wake up most mornings, look in the mirror, look at their man and realize that they married someone way out of their league. It's pretty sad, considering that this isn't really the case. It only applies as much as you let it apply to yourself. Here are three things that I tell my friends who feel that they don't deserve their man and need help changing their thinking process.

1. "Do You Want Him To Leave You?"

This is more often than not the first thing that I tell people who have this concern. They don't realize that by constantly telling themselves that they are inadequate, this re-establishes the feeling in their minds and turns it into a truth for them.

The worst thing is, your man will start believing it too. If you don't tell him face to face, he'll probably sense it in everything you do, your body language and your general demeanour. This will make him want to leave you.

2. "Why Aren't You Doing Anything About It?"

Women who only complain about themselves but don't do anything about it really don't deserve the partner that they have. That might sound harsh, but that's the truth. It is a true privilege to have someone to call your life partner.

If you feel inadequate, the first thing you can change is your attitude. You are only as inadequate as you allow yourself to be. Think you're fat? You are, if you think you are. If you really are (statistically) and you know that it's a problem with your man, have you tried to shed the weight?

3. "Who Are You?"

This final question is something that perplexes most of the people who come to me for advice. They think that I've just had a brain fart and that I can't recognise them. I'm actually just asking them a question that helps them see themself from a different perspective.

Sometimes, you forget how you appear to people. So often, I just want to record the interactions I have and show it back to the people who come to me for help. If they could see how they looked when they talked to me, they would definitely feel silly. This is because they realize that they're letting something so small get to them in such a deep way.

If you're trying to get rid of your feeling of inadequacy by understanding men better, try to realize that your problems are only as real as you make them out to be. If you think that your man deserves better he does. If want him to love you more, realize that he chose you because you love yourself.