Understanding Men: How To Be Angry At Your Man Without Pushing Him Away

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If you're trying to get better at understanding men, then you would know that we don't like it when you get angry. I mean no one really likes it when anyone gets angry, but it tends to be a lot worse when women get angry since they have more emotional depth. Some women come close to exploding when they get angry, simply because the fear that their man would just get up and leave holds them back from unleashing their wrath. Ladies, you don't have to hold back anymore. Here are three ways my wife gets angry at me without making me feel like I can't tolerate her anymore.

1. Say It

This is a very sneaky technique that works with generally every emotion. By simply saying that you're angry, you actually become less angry. I think the idea is that you dissociate yourself from the emotion of anger by saying it.

This way, your man will still know that you're angry when you're talking to him and he will respect your feelings. It also allows your arguments to be resolved a lot faster, since you don't get caught up in the emotional side of arguing as much.

2. The Cold Shoulder

This technique is tried and true. It causes men grief, since men know that their woman is angry at them when they are exposed to the cold shoulder. So it in fact does the opposite. It draws men closer to the woman when she's angry.

Of course, if you do this all the time you simply look like a sook, or a princess who's annoyed when she doesn't get her way. Reserve it for the times that you're truly angry and combine it with the "say it" principle and your man will be very attentive to your needs.

3. Put Away The Ammunition

I'm not talking about real bullets, of course. I am referring to the act of verbally hurting someone when you're angry. We all know this is a luxury that we can indulge in when we feel like the other person is getting on our nerves. However, for the purposes of arguing, it rarely does any good.

Attacks will make your man go away, but it will make it harder and harder for him to come back. So if you want to be angry, make sure this anger doesn't load up your verbal weapons.

If you're having trouble understanding men, don't take it out on him with verbal weapons. Simply say that you're angry, sort it out and diffuse the conflict. A bit of the good, old, cold shoulder never hurts either.