Understanding Men: How To Make Him Love You More By Stepping Down

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There have been a number of women who have been asking me similar questions when it comes to understanding men, so I wrote this article to try and address one of the more common issues. For women who are in a relationship, you'll find this article particularly useful. If your friends consider you the one who wears the pants in the relationship, this could be causing quite a bit of strife in your relationship. What I'm going to do is describe a way for you to essentially do nothing, let your man do everything and make him love and respect you more.

1. Whipped!

Women who "wear the pants" supposedly have all the authority in the relationship. The man answers to their every beck and call and basically, she calls the shots in the relationship.

I struggle to see what she gets out of the relationship from the man. What sort of value does the man provide if he's more whipped than whipped cream? At any rate, in this position, the man doesn't have much respect for his woman. Why's that?

2. Stepping Down

Traditionally, men are the ones who wear the pants in the relationship. This is because traditionally, the man is the provider, making sure that his family is safe, happy and healthy. Regardless of how much you want to wear the pants in the relationship, if he can't do his to some degree, he isn't getting the respect he deserves as a man.

What do you have to do? You have to let him do some of the "activities" to help recalibrate that balance in respect.

3. Some Examples

If you're like my wife, then you consider yourself the person who wears the pants in the relationship. If you don't give back some power to the man like my wife did for me, the relationship will head to a break up.

What my wife did was allow me to pay half the bills (she insisted on paying them all while I was operating my business) and cook on certain nights (she makes the best fettucine carbonara). Basically, she did less, but by giving me control, she's getting more respect and love from me because I feel more validated by her.

Understanding men doesn't have to be as complicated as it is. No matter the era, men are going to need respect if the relationship is to function properly. Delegate things for him to do, especially if you do a lot in the relationship and watch the respect he has for you skyrocket.